Another fruit of the spirit question, really important any help?

There are levels of growth in every christian and we all should strive to bare all of the fruits of the spirit...this requires much needed time in the scriptures and with our LORD and GOD in our secret places....It is our knowledge or lack of...of GOD and the power of HIS word manifested in our lives...we have as christians everything as far as spiritually concerned given to us already when we became children of GOD....we just haven't allowed our time and effort in the scriptures and with HIM like we should...And to those who say that...well they aren't there either!